Therapy for Children in Sioux Falls, SD

how did you get here?

You aren’t a bad parent. In fact, it seems like you’ve put more work into helping your child to overcome life’s challenges than the average parent.

You stayed awake at night, agonizing over the best decisions for your child, often times over-thinking what the best way was to handle these behaviors, and yet these behaviors have continued to get worse and worse.

You feel like you’ve tried everything and you know that you need some help, but now that you’re considering getting your child into counseling, you have this cloud of guilt and worry surrounding you.

  • I’m looking into play therapy for my kid. What does that say about me as a parent?
  • I’m looking into play therapy for my kid. What does that say about me as a parent?
  • Is my child crazy? No one else I know is taking their child to counseling. Maybe I should just keep trying things on my own.
  • I know the problems are real and serious, but I just can’t bring myself to accept that my toddler / preschooler needs therapy. Isn’t that way too young?

I’m here to tell you that you are NOT a bad parent. The challenges your child is experiencing are not all your fault and have occurred because of one of the following reasons: Unique PersonalityEmotional Event

Your Child Has a Unique Personality

First, it’s likely that you simply have a unique child who has a way of experiencing and responding to the world that is different than those other children who aren’t going to counseling. Your approaches so far to try to help your child to cope with those challenges and improve those behaviors have been valiant efforts, educated by the hours of research and care that you put into trying to help your child.

But ultimately, because your child has a different personality than your friends’ kids or the other kids at daycare and preschool, even though those tried and true approaches work for other parents, they just don’t seem to work when you use them.

You’re frustrated and want to stop wasting time using those discipline techniques that don’t work, and start using techniques that will actually work with the kid you’ve got (not the image of the child you thought you’d have during those pregnancy day dreams).

An Emotional Event or Experience

Another reason that your child may be experiencing some challenging behaviors is because—despite your best efforts—you were unable to protect your child from some frustrating, emotionally-draining experiences that have now resulted in your child using some challenging behaviors as a response or coping mechanism to these events.

You’ve tried everything, but despite your best intentions, you haven’t been able to help your child to get through this experience and come out on top. You’re hopeful that talking to a counselor might give your child that extra boost 
needed to overcome these experiences and return to a somewhat normal childhood again.

A colorful play therapy room filled with toys, art supplies, stuffed animals, and a dollhouse.

How Counseling Can Help

(And It Isn’t As Awkward As You Think It Will Be)

Support That Makes a Difference

I’m here to help you and your child through these challenges. 
I provide play therapy to children up to 10 years of age to help children use the fun of play to develop the skills necessary to improve their challenging behaviors and work through some of the strong emotions that can be present after living through a challenging experience.

Therapy That Feels Like Play

I’m here to help you and your child through these challenges. 
I provide play therapy to children up to 10 years of age to help children use the fun of play to develop the skills necessary to improve their challenging behaviors and work through some of the strong emotions that can be present after living through a challenging experience.

Fun First, Learning Along the Way

When your child steps into my playroom, they won’t feel like they’re at counseling. Actually, most of them don’t even know that they’re in counseling and they describe me as the fun lady with lots of toys. Your child will have fun playing, and will learn new skills to improve their behaviors, coping mechanisms and responses to challenging experiences, but will never even know that they’re “learning” anything, because they’re having so much fun.

Common Questions before Starting Counseling

Here are some common questions to help you understand our counseling services for children.

Does Coming to Counseling Mean I am a Bad Parent?

If you’re worried that bringing your child to counseling makes you a bad parent, don’t be. You’re a good parent, and your child just needs a little extra help learning the skills that will help them to make better choices and know how to cope with challenges better. I’ll help you both to make sure that happens.

Will Coming to Counseling Make My Kid Feel Bad?

If you’re worried that bringing your child to counseling makes you a bad parent, don’t be. You’re a good parent, and your child just needs a little extra help learning the skills that will help them to make better choices and know how to cope with challenges better. I’ll help you both to make sure that happens.

Is My Child Old Enough for Counseling?

If you’re worried that bringing your child to counseling makes you a bad parent, don’t be. You’re a good parent, and your child just needs a little extra help learning the skills that will help them to make better choices and know how to cope with challenges better. I’ll help you both to make sure that happens.

When Is It a Good Time to Seek Counseling for My Kid?

If you’re worried that bringing your child to counseling makes you a bad parent, don’t be. You’re a good parent, and your child just needs a little extra help learning the skills that will help them to make better choices and know how to cope with challenges better. I’ll help you both to make sure that happens.

OUR TEAM

Therapists that Specialize in Child Therapy

Lexi Hooyer

CSW
Lexi Hooyer

Jessica Stokes

CSW-PIP, QMHP
Jessica Stokes

Caroline Beebe

LPC-MH, RPT ™, NCC, QMHP
Caroline Beebe